Friday, December 12, 2008
A Dallas baby’s death inspires giving — one book at a time
Framed photos of Abigail "Abby" Kearney line the fireplace mantle at her family's North Dallas home. They're reflections of her life from birth until the age of 13 months. They're also photos her parents look at everyday to remind them of a their daughter who only celebrated one Christmas and one birthday in her life.
Abby Kearney died in May of this year, the day after Mother's Day. Her mother Mary says "Abby had a fever and was vomiting when we called our pediatrician's nurses. They said Abby probably had a bug and should be given Tylenol and put to bed."
But Abby's fever never broke. The baby stopped breathing. Her father, Will, started CPR while paramedics rushed to their home. By the time the ambulance made it to Medical City Children's Hospital in Dallas, Abby was in a coma. At the hospital, the Kearneys were told the shocking news that Abby had meningitis and suffered a massive stroke. "I couldn't believe that my little girl who was happy and playful the day before was now brain dead. How could this be?," says her mother, Mary.
It's been more than seven months since Abby's death. But somehow in their deep pain, Will and Mary have found a way to give back in Abby's memory. Will says, "Abby loved books, big books, colorful books, any books. We wanted to read to her while she was in her coma at Medical City, but we found out the hospital didn't have a children's library." The couple decided to buy some books at the hospital's book store.
Mary says, "We knew Abby was happy when we read to her, and even though she was in a coma, we knew somehow she would feel safe hearing our voices. That's why we started a book drive in Abby's name. We want other parents with children at Medical City to have a book to help comfort their children."
In November, Will and Mary spread the word that they were starting Abby's Book Corner Book Drive in December. They asked family, friends, neighbors and co-workers to donate books that would be given to Medical City. A relative even posted the book drive on Facebook. Will says, "Now every day the mailman arrives with boxes of books. We know it's Abby's spirit that is making this happen."
Margarita Rosas with Medical City's Child Life Department was pleasantly surprised by the Kearneys' gesture. She says, "It's amazing how the Kearneys have turned a tragic death into something positive that will affect them and other children who will stay at our hospital."
So far the Kearneys have collected more than 800 new books. At their home, there are piles of new books for children of all ages. There are even books in Spanish. Abby's parents hope that the parents and children who crack the books open will remember Abby for her love of books.
But Mary Kearney is on another mission. When she learned that Medical City Dallas was building a new children's hospital, she inquired if a children's library was part of the plans. Mary was disappointed to learn a children's library was not going to be part of the new hospital layout. Now she's hoping that hospital administrators will reconsider that decision. Mary says, "I wouldn't even mind if they made a little corner library for the children. Just get some books in there for the patients."
John O' Neill, CEO of Medical City Children's Hospital says, "It's wonderful what the Kearneys are doing for our future patients. It just chokes me up when I think of their hard work." The new children's hospital is scheduled to open in 2010 and it will have a Family Resource Center. O'Neill adds, "We're hoping to put the donated books in the center so parents can check them out for their children. We are always looking for a way to improve our hospital, and the Kearneys are making that possible."
Abby's parents hope to make the book drive an annual event. This year's book drive will end on December 31st. The Kearneys plan to donate the books to Dallas Medical City in January. Mary has even started a blog on Abby, information on meningitis, and the book drive.
When the Kearneys lost Abby they were left childless. That will change in a few months. Mary Kearney is 7 months pregnant with a little girl.
If you would like to donate a book or funds to Abby's Book Corner Book Drive:
- Email Mary Kearney at maryekearney@sbcglobal.net
- Drop off your book donation at the Purple Cow Restaurant at Preston and Royal in Dallas.
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Scott Doyle, says:
Wow. Simply...wow.
So happy to hear they are expecting! Will definitely do what I can to get a few books up to Purple Cow.
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MeningitisAngels, says:
This is a beautiful story of love.
I am the mother of an only child, Ryan, who died from of meningococcal meningitis and the founder and executive director of a national organization, Meningitis Angels, www.meningitis-angels.org.
Too many infants, teens, kids and young adults are left debilitated or die from this vaccine preventable disease.
What is meningitis? Meningitis is a dangerous and sometimes fatal inflammation of the brain and/or spinal cord that can leave survivors with serious life-long physical problems such as, organ failure, blindness, deafness, loss of limbs, severe seizures, brain damage and other disabilities. You should also understand meningococcemia and sepsis.
Signs and Symptoms Do you know the early signs of meningitis and blood poisoning which could improve detection of the disease and save lives? Unrelenting fever, leg pain, cold hands and feet and abnormal skin color can develop within (12 hours) after infection long before the more classic signs of the illness such as a rash, headache, stiff neck, sensitivity to light and impaired consciousness, debilitation or death. Anyone can get meningitis especially infants, children and teens.
What parents and students should know: According to ACIP/CDC children ages (11) years through college freshmen should be vaccinated against meningococcal meningitis. The current vaccines are approved for ages (2) years and older. However be informed, there are (5) sero-groups of the disease, all sero-groups are not covered. However the most common in the United States among adolescents and college students is sero-group C and Y, which are.
Infants and toddlers should be vaccinated against pneumococcal and HIB meningitis. Those children in daycare and those of American Indian,Eskimo and African American heritage are at a higher risk for some forms of meningitis.
There are no vaccines to prevent viral meningitis. . Frankie Milley, Meningitis Angels, Founder/National Director Meningitis Angels (Base) Texas
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gailbailey, says:
I am so very sorry to read about the death of your baby girl. Just try to remember, she is in heaven and out of her pain. We lost our 20-year old son, Eddy, to this horrific disease. Our lives are never the same without Eddy, but we try to remember he lives in our heart forever. In addition, we try to tell every parent we know about the vaccine for this disease, so that their family never has to go through this loss. Eddy loved books too, and what a beautiful thing you are doing!!! God bless you and your angel is watching over you. Gail Bailey, Eddy's mom
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williamx, says:
My wife and I would like to thank everyone for their well wishes. We would like to point out that Abby died from a non-vaccine strain of pneumococcal meningitis. Abby received all four of her Prevnar shots, which provide protection against 7 of the 91 strains of the Steptococcus pneumoniae bacteria. For more information, please visit our blog at http://willandmarykearney.blogspot.com/. Thank you. Will and Mary Kearney.
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Jason Rice, says:
William, how you two even have the strength to breathe is beyond me. I second Doyle's wow
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hawnsally7, says:
It is truly amazing at how much support this book drive has had. Words cannot explain how grateful my family is for all of your continued support. This has certainly been a tough journey. I have however heard that when you go through something like this, it is good to get yourself involved in a good project or something that will keep you busy. My family has dealt with a great amount of sadness the past 7 months, but we are ecstatic about the arrival of the new baby sometime in February. It will bring back so much joy that was lost during this time. Merry christmas to all of you and thank you again for helping this cause! xo- sally ( will's cousin).
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Scott Doyle, says:
I've already picked up a couple of books, btw - will try to remember to drop them off at Purple Cow tonight.
While I'm sure y'all aren't picky, is there any particular type of book you're not seeing many of that would be optimal for the library?
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williamx, says:
Hi Scott,
Thank you so much for your support. We are so happy to have received so many books. As far as the variety of the collection, we are needing some more books that would appeal to older kids, such as short novels, or more books in Spanish. Thank you again.
Will and Mary Kearney.
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pamnwoody, says:
Thank you Rebecca. You always write about people and things that touch our hearts. God Bless You!!! This story made me cry. I will pass it on to all of my friends. Keep up the good work, we love you.
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MUSAorg, says:
The Meningitis Foundation of America (MFA), a national organization, would like the public and media to know that information is available regarding the diagnosis, treatment and prevention of meningitis. MFA was founded by parents whose children were affected by meningitis. In addition to supporting vaccines and other means of preventing meningitis, the MFA provides information to educate the public and medical professionals so that the early diagnosis, treatment and, most important, prevention of meningitis, will save lives. Meningitis is a dangerous and sometimes fatal inflammation of the brain and/or spinal cord that can leave survivors with serious life-long physical problems such as deafness, brain damage and other disabilities, meningitis can sometimes result in loss of limbs. MFA would like to be considered as a news resource for the disease. For further information, visit the MFA website at www.musa.org.
MFA is proud to announce the new C.I.S.S. Container Identification Scratch System When we participate in sporting events or mingle at social gatherings it is possible to lose track of our water bottles and/or beverage cans, especially those served in containers that are very similar or identical to a container from which you are drinking. This carries the risk of transmitting an illness, such as meningitis or the common cold or flu. The Container Identification Scratch System, or C.I.S.S., is a fun way to make sure you always know your drink from others. Use it at sporting events or at a family gatherings and reduce the waste from forgotten drinks. Simply scratch your number from the C.I.S.S. label and identify your drink. For more information please contact Bob Gold at Ciss.bob@gmail.com and www.musa.org
Thank you,
Meningitis Foundation of America P O Box 83602 Phoenix, AZ 85071 480-270-2652 www.musa.org
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